@owiebrainhurts

Hey! I'm getting some reccuring questions and comments, so I thought I'd take some of my responses and put them here in an easy-to-find way.

Obviously, I'm not a doctor. This is my lived experience as a formally diagnosed autistic person, and I have referenced sources that are medically approved.

In all instances, look at reliable resources such as https://embrace-autism.com/, https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/autism/ and https://www.autism.org.uk/ that have been written and approved by medical professionals to gain a more nuanced and educated understanding.

It goes without saying, but just because you relate to me, it doesn't mean you definitely have autism! Just because you score high on a screening test or two, it doesn't mean you definitely have autism! Like I said at the end of the video, if you think you might, do your research using reliable resources, collect evidence, and speak to a doctor if you can. 

💬"Is there a reason to get diagnosed? Or is it more of a curiosity thing?"

▶Depends on the person. For some, its helpful in self understanding and accessing help and resources. For others, they just want to know! Choosing to not get diagnosed is a choice many also make
▶[diagnosis] answered a lot of personal questions I had, and helped relieve some guilt I had about things I haven't been able to control, which has been really nice. Essentially, it helped me understand myself better, but that process of understanding started happening as soon as I realised I might be autistic, so it wasn't the diagnosis itself that did that. The diagnosis just helped me take my suspicions seriously and deeper understand. In terms of day-to-day functioning, not much is different, but I suppose I don't beat myself up as much if I think I'm being awkward in public or around others - my brain literally isnt wired for doing that well and I know that now!
▶personally, I chose to because I've had mental health issues my whole life and having a solid and confirmed explanation for it has been healing and helpful. additionally, if I ever need special accommodations or treatment relating to my health, it will be easier to be understood and get the appropriate help I need! lots of people don't persue diagnosis, especially if their autism doesn't impact their day-to-day life much, and that is valid
▶Would a diagnosis help you in any way? that's what you need to ask yourself. if its not helpful, it's probably not worth doing!

💬*criticisms of self diagnosis, thinking people self diagnose as an excuse to be unpleasant or not try, etc*

▶I tried to explain how important it is to thoroughly research for self diagnosis :) And in the end of the day, if someone is 'faking it', chances are they need help with something - i dont imagine many healthy or mentally well people want to look disabled. Explanations are not excuses! That's also important to remember - if I ever hurt someone I wouldn't dare blame it on my autism. It might explain why I did something, but I'm always going to profusely apologise! Anyone using it as an excuse to be bad, is simply... bad
▶➡ I gave autistic-made, medically approved sources of information
➡ I described with sources the reasons some people physically can't get a diagnosis
➡ I explained why thorough research is important and ways both personal and medical misdiagnosis can happen
➡ I stated you should do multiple layers of things if you think you might be autistic - not just do screening tools - and certainly didnt say that that is how you 'find out if you're autistic'

💬"I'm worried i'm being dramatic or faking my symptoms"

▶lots of people have issues with imposter syndrome - even for months after my diagnosis I was worried they got it wrong. it gets better in time!

@AM9436.

I was diagnosed when I was 16-18, and was constantly getting asked "why weren't you diagnosed when you were a kid?"
Meanwhile my mother was diagnosed a year before me, at the young age of 55.

@pixiehellpup1579

they said "fake it till you make" it to me in school and actively told me i'd be better off masking since jobs, partners, and general public would treat me different if not worse but now that i've accepted that 'i'm autistic it feels more and more like they were telling me to 'fake it until I make it harder on myself :/'

@blankcanvasstudios3463

As a fellow neurodivergent person- how??? You radiate neurodiversity (this is a compliment btw)

@gunier.j.kintgenanimations

As an autistic person myself, I know your pain. I was diagnosed when I was like 2, I can only imaging how stressful it must be only finding out Now! You have all of our support; We're rootin' for ya!

@coletakkish4389

For any of y'all who're curious, a really good channel to learn about high-masking autism is I'm Autistic, Now What? It's run by this British woman in her late 20s who talks about her experiences navigating social life as an autistic woman and reacts to other autism-centric content. Very wholesome vibes, and very helpful for picking apart the layers of uncertainty, insecurity, and imposter syndrome that high-masking folks often build up

@momon1413

People asked me if I was autistic before I was diagnosed. My mom would take me to a doctor to check my hearing because I wouldn't respond to my name being called(autism trait). They said I didn't have autism when I was 16. Later I got asperger diagnosis when I was 18, one from a private clinic and later from the public one.
People underestimate how easy it is to slip through these systems that look very rigid from the outside.

@therajaofashbourne8483

as an autistic + adhd bengali my heart was truely touched to see bangladesh's name invoked by the great owiebrainhurts

@Maker0824

5:09 "There will be so much more owie in the coming months". That sounds more like a threat than I think it was supposed to sound

@Kawaiitwo

I’m lucky (I guess? Does this qualify as lucky?) that I was diagnosed at the age of 5. My mom noticed some behaviors of mine were different than my older brother and sister, such as stacking dolls. She told me about my diagnosis when I was in third grade, and while I didn’t think much of it at the time (because, you know, I was 8), knowing early definitely helped save me from being confused later on. Well, at least on why I was different from other people, there were whole other struggles with my peers throughout school, especially in high school. I’m glad the people I’ve met at college so far are much more understanding and accepting, but high school was hell. People would meow at me in the hallways because I’d often meow in earlier grades, and my bitch of a principal would just dismiss it. Made my blood boil, and my mom was arguably more pissed than me.

@Subpar1O1

I remember the reason I got diagnosed is because a teacher in my primary school suspected I had it, but my parents didn't want to go through the whole diagnosis rigamarole so it never came up again until I was 16 and we got health form things? for school and an autism diagnosis was just sitting there on mine. I remember getting really offended at first but over the course of a week it went from "how did anyone think I had autism" to "wait no that explains a lot". Looking back I'm suprised only one teacher ever noticed because it only occurred to me a while ago that I was one neurotic child. TLDR I went on this tangent, but was there a reason why? No, but maybe that's why I got diagnosed

@Clrafi

I’m disappointed, I wanted a 2 hour heavy lore video

@ZoomDoomBoom

There's something about these videos that's so comforting. It's nice to hear someone other than family talk about these things. A second and possibly weird reason is this corner of the internet kinda feels like a safe space to me???? (pleasetellmethatmakessense) Idk, but idc because I love it and all of your content!!! Looking forward to future uploads!!! 🐈

@SoothieTheAudiophile

Autism is honestly a very misunderstood concept, from what I've seen. "Oh, it's just a phase, you'll grow out of it!" "Oh, s/he just wants attention!" "Oh, s/he's a very picky eater.". I hate it when people say those. Hell, I've heard a kid in my class called people with Down Syndrome (obviously a very different condition that has little to no correlation to ASD) autistic!! I'm happy that bigger channels like yours spread the word around about what autism really is. Thanks for making this video!! ^U^

@elapt1c

i am autistic but NOT a red cat. this helped me understand some of my symptoms like being hungry but feeling something else that is not hungry instead, heat regulation, and a bunch of other stuff u mentioned. luckily i was diagnosed at ~12-13 years old.

@myrimur9891

MY GOD FINALLY SOMEONE RECOGNIZES THE THING WITH TEMPERATURE REGULATION AND GETTING COLD ALL THE TIME THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!

@hosatus2433

Crazy how people attacking you for doing anything that isn't "normal" makes you really good at being "normal"

@glaxtydreams

For me, when I got a diagnosis for my autism, I was treated worse than when I didn't have a diagnosis and I didn't get any help for my sensory issues and my grandparents (maybe my parents too)  thought you could only be autistic when ur like 7 and younger and thought autism was a excuse too not do as much work or something. Also, my parents would explicitly teach me too mask when they knew I was autistic, and like you can teach someone to look both ways while crossing a street, that's not bad but my parents would get mad at me if i did visible stimming and they'd make me undergo sensory deprivation or/and would make me suffer through too many senses (noise, smelling, touch, etc.), and they did it on purpose :(

Thanks for the video! (^_^)

@alle6605

I recently got diagnosed at 19, no one ever thought I was autistic, was a bit of a shock when I realized that hiding certain habits of mine was me masking my neurodivergency

@Cr4z3d

I actually love this artstyle/animation. it's adorable, and really fluid.