@mosuilleabhain
No 1 Kindness If they don't show you genuine kindness - walk away.
@sebbenja
Authenticity and honesty is everything for me! #FEELIT #INTUITION
@heathenbreathinfire
Exactly!!...and social media in particular thrives on this type of fakeness...
@catina_rn
Sounds like most marriages that i know...on surface and in public they appear amazing but behind closed doors, their cheating, berating and really don't like each other
@Skigirl-b2e
I agree 100%. If I've engaged with someone that doesn't ask about me, my family, or how I spend my retirement after I've asked them the same thing...I leave and wouldn't engage with them again. That also goes for people on their cell phones. Self centered people don't have a place in my life.
@Rya498
This is very true! I wish I had chosen better for myself, I’m not even on social media, so I had no idea what my partner was doing on social media constantly.
@mariannasantorinaiou3535
True💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 No mask, no fake life , no artificiality😢
@brandi66RN
I don't like many people, and not many people like me, but I am very OK with that, because I can be very direct and I tend to answer questions literally. The minute I know someone is self-absorbed, shallow, trivial, or is talking to those present about all of those not present............ I'm out 💯‼️
@RavenVapor873
No one can live like that for any length of time without getting caught off guard. Who they really are will always show up. It just takes time.
@ThatGirlYouKnow97
That’s why I really love YouTubers who show real life and strive to make positive differences. Not everyone who films themself is bad.
@cellmediated
So succinctly advised! Keep up the good videos.
@caroline-p7z2q
He is absolutely 👍 right
@juiceknot
That’s why I trust Oscar the Grouch. He’s real. You know his house is gonna be a mess. No faking
@viviandaviss
Also, test how they react to you setting boundaries. If they have a sense of entitlement or ownership towards you, RUN
@littleloulou1
These are the people in which, paying them a visit means that; you have to almost make an appointment to see them in their home. We’ve always had an open door policy and if there’s something in the chair: I won’t make you wait at the door. I don’t care if my hair’s been brushed yet😂 or if I’m eating dinner with pans still on the stove. If they don’t like seeing a few dishes on the counter, that is not going to bother me. If they have a problem; it’s on them…not me. They can choose whether to come or go to my home. Many of my family members wish that were a bit embarrassed but I like who I am and I’m not afraid to have a conversation while waiting in line at the grocery store. We are all perfectly imperfect and that is what makes us who we are…not boring and not without character. Finally, someone that puts it out there.
@getblessedlessstress
Dude THANK YOU..WAKE UP PEOPLE
@Tami7884
That makes perfect sense... antenna up!!!
@StamperWendy
If they think you're the enemy, instead of teaming up with you (you and me against the world)
@BECOMINGMADMAX
You nailed it! I feel everyone needs to hear this before going into their next relationship.
@sheilasweeney1479