@brunomcleod
That comment "You didn't mention gaslighting" actually got me
@patrickbanish8154
You forgot rage manipulation. It’s when someone is angry all the time and rages out so much that you walk on eggshells and give them their way because you don’t want to trigger their anger. I think rage manipulation is used way more than some of the ones you have on your list.
@GokU-v9x8s
That comment "That comment "You didn't mention gaslighting" actually got me" actually got me.
@brannonwinchester7054
Thanks for the free lesson, now i am equipped to become an effective politician.
@bodyawarenessadvocate
Silent treatment while being an overthinker ate me up. It was horrible, and you never know when it ends.
@ItsAustinSea
this is really good knowledge to have for SELF correction... a lot of people, myself included, do these things without even realizing they're doing it. With this knowledge, you can attempt to remove those sort of behaviors when you find yourself doing them.
@AmoraSanDD
It's really important to know when someone is manipulative and how spending that time with that person drains your energy, they setup traps, talk you into things and many more things that i have learned in the e-book Exquisite Psychopath, would recommend to everyone.
@Lov3dscarz
Some ppl are rly good at making this stuff “normal” or “not a big deal” 😢
@plausibledeniability2941
Important to remember that many people do these things all the time without realising it or with no particular motive or intention. It's only really manipulation if they are actively pursuing an outcome from the behaviour and know they are doing it. Otherwise they're not a manipulative genius, they're just emotionally undeveloped and don't know how else to deal with social interactions. A lot of these behaviours are very common but not designed to 'make' the other person do or feel anything in particular. Just wanted to point this out out, as if you start looking for these, you'll see it everywhere and go crazy thinking you're being manipulated by evil geniuses all the time. It can potentially really damage some relationships if you start viewing people's behaviour through this lens. Very few people are sociopath level manipulators, most are just using the tools they have to deal with feelings they don't understand. Other than that, great video with useful information that can help you defend against nefarious agents and bad actors.
@deificatom3332
Crazy how moms use all of these on the regular
@tempered-geography
Useful timestamps: 0:00 stonewalling 1:12 guilt tripping 2:34 guilt tripping 3:17 mirroring 4:01 guilt tripping 5:08 gaslighting 5:54 gaslighting Hope this helps! Rewatched the vid multiple times to make sure this was correct
@sorrowfulnothingness
You posted this video right after I ended a friendship that used almost all of these. Now I know that I definitely should have gotten out of there
@DodgeThatAttack
I got out of a narcissistic relationship a few months ago, and this video really put into perspective a lot of the techniques they used quite accurately. I think this is information a lot more people should be aware of.
@ivankasi9382
And I just realised I've been manupilated in so many ways
@mehkhan
Time stamps: 00:00 1. Gaslighting 01:37 2. Guilt tripping 02:55 3. Love bombing 04:23 4. Silent treatment 05:50 5. Triangulation 07:20 6. Projection 08:30 7. Blame shifting 10:00 8. Playing the victim 11:30 9. Stonewalling 12:54 10. Mirroring 14:16 11. Love withdrawal
@loneshewolf74
Somebody once accused me of gaslighting. I told him, "That's crazy!".
@cadler5885
It's mandatory for politicians to learn all of these
@YaxesPretti
I've just come to the realization I've been guilt tripping my loved ones all this time, and I genuinely wasn't aware. Everytime I feel ignored, I feel like they're mad at me and hate me so I leave, hide, and sulk in a place where I can isolate because I feel lonely. So whenever they approach me I say “It's okay I'm not important enough, anyway.” or something like that, idk where my behaviour rooted from, but I hope I can change it. Thank you for making this video, this really helped me in discovering what else I needed to fix to grow as a person : )
@JessieJTS
There is someone I was friends with for 20 or so years that would wrap gaslighting, guilt tripping, triangulation, projection, blame shifting, and victim playing all into one. For the last 4 years of our friendship, that's all it was. When I called him out on it, I was always the "bad guy" in his eyes. I knew it was going on the whole time once it started but was hoping he was just going through something and would move past it, but no, he was trying to manipulate me and I wasn't having it. I encourage anyone who even THINKS this is happening to them to save this video in a "favorites" list or something to rewatch to remind themselves of these things, and if possible, seek professional help from a counselor or other mental wellness professional because these types of people will convince you that you are the problem, if you let them. Even if all you have is a friend who isn't friends with that person or a family member who you trust and doesn't know the manipulator. An outside perspective can be a huge help as long as you are truthful with them about the events. If you feel like this is happening, distance yourself from this person. If you read this far, I hope you are well and have great day! :face-red-heart-shape:
@Lifstyleofmaherma